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Emotional Suppression and Anxiety

Emotional suppression is the attempt to push down, avoid, or control unwanted feelings. While it may reduce discomfort temporarily, research by Gross, Barlow, and Campbell‑Sills shows that suppression increases physiological arousal, intensifies anxiety, and makes emotions rebound more strongly.

Emotional suppression interacts closely with avoidant coping, anxiety sensitivity, and rumination.

What Emotional Suppression Is

Emotional suppression is not the same as emotional regulation. Regulation involves managing emotions skillfully. Suppression involves pushing emotions away, hiding them, or pretending they are not there. This creates internal tension and increases the intensity of the very feelings you are trying to avoid.

Common forms of suppression include:

  • pushing away anxious thoughts or sensations
  • forcing yourself to “stay calm”
  • avoiding emotional conversations
  • numbing through distraction or overwork
  • pretending everything is fine

Why Suppression Feels Helpful

Suppression feels helpful because it reduces emotional intensity in the moment. It can create a sense of control or stability. But research by Gross shows that suppression increases physiological arousal — heart rate, muscle tension, and stress hormones — even when emotions appear “under control.”

Suppression also reinforces the belief that emotions are dangerous or unacceptable, a theme also seen in anxiety sensitivity.

How Emotional Suppression Maintains Anxiety

When emotions are suppressed, they do not disappear — they intensify. Suppression increases internal monitoring, narrows attention, and activates the threat system. This creates a rebound effect where emotions return stronger than before.

Suppression also strengthens:

These processes feed into the anxiety cycle, making anxiety more persistent.

Common Misunderstandings

“If I let myself feel this, it will overwhelm me.” Emotions peak and fall naturally when allowed.

“Staying strong means staying in control.” Suppression increases internal stress and reduces resilience.

“I shouldn’t feel this way.” Emotions are signals, not failures.

How Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy Helps

CBH helps reduce emotional suppression through methods supported by research from Gross, Hayes, and Alladin.

  • Acceptance skills — allowing emotions without resistance.
  • Hypnosis — reducing fear of emotional intensity and increasing tolerance.
  • Cognitive restructuring — challenging beliefs about “unacceptable” emotions.
  • Emotion-focused exposure — practising staying with feelings safely.
  • Imagery rescripting — updating emotional memories that shaped suppression.

This approach is especially effective when combined with reducing avoidant coping and attention training.

Research & Further Reading

  • Gross, J. — Emotion regulation and suppression
  • Campbell‑Sills, L. — Suppression and anxiety
  • Hayes, S. — Experiential avoidance
  • Barlow, D.H. — Emotional processing in anxiety
  • Alladin, A. — Hypnosis and emotional change

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